Law School should be two years of classes and one year of mandatory therapy. The amount of trauma, anxiety, and pure ego we pack into three years of academic theory is completely unsustainable. We graduate knowing how to analyze a 19th-century property dispute but have zero tools for dealing with a crying client or a 3 AM panic attack. If we spent the third year learning emotional regulation and office management, the lawyer burnout rate would plummet. Why are we still pretending that thinking like a lawyer means feeling like a robot?

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I'm not paying an entire year of law school tuition to learn how to emotionally regulate.

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You can’t teach emotional intelligence. Anyone who needs a full year to learn basic empathy or coping mechanisms should have been on that journey well before 3L

What would you cut from your legal studies to open up a year of therapy? I think it's on us to seek out a therapist on our own time if we feel like it's needed.

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