Looking for advise.. I am 34, divorced, in a new relationship where my partner has two kids. My ex husband and I did IVF ( PCOS + male factor). We had a late term miscarriage at 21 weeks. We have additional embryos, however I’m considering egg freezing. My current partner is in the process of divorce and we talk about starting a family next year. Should I hold off on egg freezing and try conceiving naturally in a year ? Or do I freeze my eggs as a contingency?

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Freeze your eggs just in case. It’s better to have them and not need them than need them and not have them.

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I mean if you can afford it and deal with the process one more time , it would be a good contingency measure for sure

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Freeze regardless

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Freeze embryos with new partner. Not eggs. Embryos.

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I normally agree with this, A1. But OP said she’s in a new relationship and that seems like a real gamble. She already has embryos she can’t use from her ex. I’d hate for her to end up with more embryos she also can’t use because things didn’t work out with this person. You have to be really sure that this is the partner for you to freeze embryos.

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How many kids do you want? If one I think you can hold off and wait. If more then you should freeze. My clinic says ivf outcomes very good up to 37/38

Agree to freeze eggs. Someone else suggested embryos but then you’re really banking on this one working out and if you freeze eggs you can use those with anyone.

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