Men, how long do you usually take to ask someone out post second date?

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12-48 hours

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I usually ask at the end of the date if it went well. Something like ‘I would love to see you again - can we do X on X day?’

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I usually ask if they want to see each other again during the first date

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Ask during the date. Make the ask activity/interest based ie “there’s a new coffee roaster that opened that has thee best dark roast. I usually go there after the gym on Saturday mornings. I can give you a tour Saturday if you want.” Vs “I want to see you again. How’s next Friday? “.

Women love to see that you have a life and interests that you are open to including them in. Activity/interest based requests are less threatening as it takes the focus off of her and puts it on the experience/activity.

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Love this!

“If a man is into you, you’ll know.
If he isn’t, you’ll be confused.”

I say this as a man.

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Either try to find out if they are interested in seeing you again at the end of the date to get a first hint and if there isn’t much there to get a response of or the girl wants to think about it, then definitely within the next 2 days.

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