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No! We were long past the bar hoping stage and going out for drunken nights. We both did that big time prior to marriage, but separately w different crowds. We did however continue to go to the theatre (which we both enjoy and go frequently) and concerts, sporting events, and things such as this.

I do have friends who continued to party like they did in college but that wasn’t for us.

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Idk how y’all pro-create with men that cannot come to their own conclusion that if they want happy, healthy children they will have to change their lives significantly to raise them successfully.

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Yes I struggled with this for a while and had to shift my mindset on this after the second kid, since there was a gap between first and second. Was used to living a certain way and then the second one really shook it up. Was down for a while, at least half a year, and adjusted eventually. Definitely important to have breaks and support.

I have friends who are going through similar things and it really is hard. Having kids really does change your life and its a hard adjustement.

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37 weeks today! We are excited :)) the waiting period is weird though. When will baby come???

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Surrounding yourself with the right people can make a major impact in living the life that you want.

People who Teach, Empower, and Support you in every aspect of your life will fast-track your growth. Also, surrounding yourself with these people will give you an environment of freedom to talk about anything.

Do you have these types of people in your current relationships? If so, make sure you prioritize building on them as they are your keepers.

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Desi folks! Why do you let your parents manage your profile on the websites? It’s so uncomfortable when you get a call at 4 am saying “beta, we like your profile.” 🤷🏽‍♂️

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