Need to vent - my wedding photos are overdue. I emailed my photographer last Tuesday asking for an update and he responded the same day saying they would be ready by Saturday. Saturday came and went and haven’t heard a peep from him. My husband says I should give it some more time before reaching out again so he doesn’t rush through our pics but I’m so frustrated especially at the lack of communication and professionalism. Any suggestions?

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We’re going on almost 2 weeks overdue per the contract. I wouldn’t mind as much if he communicated the delay but this feeling of me chasing him for my photos is unpleasant

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He long has it been after the weeding? Also what does your contract say for delivery date?

I had a similar experience with our photographer, she was a month late and I had to follow up twice but the pictures came out incredible. I would wait another week before following up again with yours, it’s still prime wedding season so they’re probably just overwhelmed

Thank you! It’s actually the low season for us here in South Florida so not sure what the reason is for the delay but regardless I’ll wait a bit

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Aw, I totally get the frustration, especially when you feel like you are the one having to ask all the questions about it! My sister went through with her photographer too! I don’t recall how long after she finally got them, but she did and they were all beautiful! Hoping you get yours soon!

Our photographer took 2 weeks longer than she originally said and my partner and I were unhappy. That being said, we knew how busy she was and knew she would do a great job once we got them so we patiently waited.

Once we got them, we were incredibly happy with them despite waiting longer. She wanted to make sure she did the best job for us.

I know it’s frustrating, but give it some more time and then reach out again. They are going to look amazing!!

So thankful ours gave us around 80 sneak peaks the next day. Still waiting for the rest, but they probably take 200 -300 and hour. That's a lot of photos to sift through, priotitize, and touch up.

Just got mine.. about 75 days, so within what he promised.

Our engagements photos were also late and our photographer missed the day that he had told us they’d be ready after I followed up. I was also very frustrated. I ended up waiting it out instead of following up again and was very glad I did. I would give it a bit more time.

It’s frustrating but your husband is right.

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