One of my lead partners is super nice to in front of others but then really mean to me when we meet 1x1. How to deal with this?

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Probably is like that with everyone

If you're close to someone find out what their one and ones are like, but be careful don't make it obvious

And there's difference between nice and mean

I think you're getting constructive feedback on the 1-1 and seeing the good side outside

I wouldn't be too worried but doesn't hurt to check

Sounds like sexual tension. You know what do - hit it or report it.

Ummmmm nope mck—def no tension.

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