What to do when you have a crush on your team lead?

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If u are a gal go for it, if you are a guy forget it.

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Right on the spot….

Im a girl. Doesn't help my case because he's engaged to marry someone else.

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Dont be sad.
Let me do you a console
There are many fishes to be caught in the fishbowl

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Don't express it to him else as per D policies of independence..you will have to change your team. 🤣🤣🤣

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Dm open😀

Ohh!! Now You have only one option that is ME😁

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