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Remember why you left in the first place. Chances are if you go back, you will just leave again in a couple of years because it would be exactly the same job you had before which you didn't like.
Continued
I have made real friendships here and my leaving would really screw them, esp this one person I have become close to. Ugh I don’t know. The thought possibly having to give notice after a few months is making me nauseous! They were a disaster here because the last person left abruptly and it was chaos for a few months. It’s all running smoothly again and I feel like my friend will be pissed off if I leave. Thoughts?
What a strange reply. Well if you’re not happy you should do what you think is best regardless of what people think. At the end of the day, what matters is you. However, think about the consequences. Not to them but you.
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It sounds like what might help here is making a pros and cons list for each firm so that you may be able to make a fully informed decision, but I’d like to stress to NOT leave your current firm on the information that you’re getting as until you’re actually asked to come back? You’re not asked to come back.
Why did you choose to leave your first firm? I wasn’t sure if you left your first firm because of the volume/lack of help or if that was one of the reason why you were wanting to leave your second.
To be frank, if she was a real friend - you could come to her and explain your complaints without fear of reprisal. I definitely understand the situation and how awkward you must feel, but you need to remember that at the end of the day: you just need to be able to take care of you and/or your family.