So tired of being staffed more than my peers. And when I try to dodge more staffing, I get bitched out during my review. I crave being mediocre at this point. I’m exhausted.

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If it’s troubling you this much, you know you don’t have to be more than mediocre right? Kill the people pleasing perfectionist brown noser in you.

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Preach OP

Is this worse than being laid off for “performance” reasons and then being on unemployment and/or food stamps? It’s all about perspective.

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If I’m constantly grateful for the fact that I’m not (yet) dead, then I’ll never find the opportunity to live.

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I feel this

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OP you should consider lateraling in all honesty. This is proof that you want to be a decent but not the “star” associate.

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That’s what I’m doing - can’t wait to be out of here

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Fighting same battle right now.

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