Someone at work actually told me I could consider getting botox to lift the corners of my mouth so that I can look more neutral or happy. This is when I was sharing with her that people find me intimidating. Is she basically trying to tell me I have an RBF? I haven't been told that before, but I was beyond shocked when I heard that response come out of her. I'm having such a visceral reaction, I'm considering leaving sales as a whole, because it seems like having a smile on all the time is a requirement to be successful here, and that's just not me. Please feel free to tell me if I'm overreacting.

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Wow that's harsh. I don't think you need to smile all the time. You can just be friendlier when you're facing prospects or customers but its impossible for anyone in any industry to always be pleasant. I think you're setting an impossible standard for yourself and this coworker of yours ia surely a little cuckoo to offer that as a solution. If I can be of any help, I'd rather suggest you to tell people upfront that you're friednly despite the fact that you don't come off as the most friendly... make a joke about it and watch people move completely differently around you.

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