This has happened to me a couple of times. Why do men ask me to take them to parties? I just think it’s kind of odd. I have never met them and they’ll text me and then they’ll ask me what I’m doing this weekend and if I say oh, I’m hanging out with my friends or I’m going to so and so party, they are always like. Oh well where’s my invite? Like I have never even met you. Why would I take you to a party with me?

How do I politely decline that I’m not okay to make out in the first date or when the guy calls me over to his place after we meet/eat/drink? I want to take things slowly & know the person before getting physical. Not everyone might like this but that’s what I am & this whole thing appears off-putting.

If you’re in a relationship (even a happy one), is flirting fine or walking a line? I think consistently flirting with the same person can be shaky, but what about strangers if you’re out?

How do y’all meet people (networking/prospects/otherwise)? Something besides mipster/muppies would be solid :)

Where do you stay up to date in the best ideas from the industry?

What’s a good bar where a single lesbian can mingle with other queer ladies?

Single 25 F. Any single males 25-30 yrs on here?

Could you seriously date someone who isn't on the same financial level as you?

Running behind on a date, tried to originally reschedule but he insisted, said I was on a call and instead of 5:30 could meet at 6:30 and at 6:15 he checked in, I said 20 more and then he cancelled...

Has anyone had any luck with the apps? Still not finding it easy to meet in RL, so resorting to apps but I know they have a rough track record. Any recommendations?

Any single female fish is this bowl enjoy dating men In their late 30s

Grinder is so much more convenient for hookups. Anything similar for straight men?

So this dude asked me late last night if I wanted to call him and said he needed someone to talk to while working late..told me to let him know if I had a guy over then he’ll talk to someone else. I didn’t have a guy over and not that kind of person so why assume that? It pisses me off.

Any single women who want to chat. Bi/lesbian only. Philly/New York. Age 31

NYC Meetup! 🎉

I’ve finally got the details ironed out after listening to a lot of your requests via comments and DMs!

Date: Saturday, August 27th
Time: 7:00pm
Location: The Ship NYC

I’m pretty nervous for this because I have no idea how this is going to go and how this is going to end up… but it’ll be fun if at least one person shows up! I’ll be there with a friend— I have major social anxiety, but I do need to meet more people/make more friends.

I hope to see you there! 🤝🏼

Any black Christian men? 25 F Atlanta looking for a relationship

MId 40's Attractive Divorced Male here 6'1" in Nor Cal. Any attractive female fishes here for casual dating

This seems like a relatively quite group.. I feel like stirring the pot a bit..I have always wondered if other fellow NB also struggle with personal relationships and dating as I do.. thoughts?

How are people making the most of dating in Covid? Has anyone met someone through the apps and started dating during this time? Thought it would be a great time to find people who are looking for something serious and less distracted by a busy routine but haven’t had much luck.

For those who are actively dating, how’s it going?

Anyone here deal with Phantom Share Agreements? Would that be in the wheelhouse for an ECVC lawyer? My BIL is being offered a job with a company and received a proposed phantom shares agreement. One condition states that he must remain in good standing with the company even after the 3 year vesting period to receive distributions. Is that atypical?

As a 20+ year lawyer with no big law experience (smaller and mid size firms plus government and in house experience), would a BigLaw firm even consider me? Perhaps an of counsel position? Even a senior associate?

Trump for past several weeks: Mail in voting is fraud. Fraud fraud fraud. Massive bigly fraud.

Trump aides: Sir you are losing in Florida, a key battleground state.

Trump today: Mail in voting is perfectly safe and secure and I recommend it, in Florida.

Hi,
Need some advice. My pet had been eating his kebble food on a consistent basis. Then I introduced a bit of raw chicken into his kebble and loved having it even more. But now I'm realizing that if I don't add chicken, he just doesn't eat his regular kebble food. What should I do? (Don't want to feed chicken every day)

Anyone have tips on writing a cover letter without referring to anything in the resume?

Just curious- how many 🐠 on this bowl are on OPT/ h1b (H) and how many have GC/citizenship (C)?

Is it just me or with the rise of attacks on "essential workers", it's scary nowadays to work a public-facing job? I've seen so many videos of workers getting attacked for doing their job, some of them have even lost their lives.

Just finished a PM contract in LA, if anyone hears of any openings, Eastside preferred (DTLA, Burbank, etc), I’ll be your Bestie!

Anyone looking for a freelance PM at an agency? Preferably in LA? I've been doing strategy brand side internationally (currently in Dublin) but moving back to LA soon. Thanks in advance!

Made a mistake: I bought a watch instead of an iPad for grad school use.

Hi Fishes,

I am a QA engineer in an edutech company. I have an experience of 7.5 years (manual testing- database, front end, mobile and api testing).

I want to move to a BA role. I have good communication skills and an analytical mind. Below are 3 of my biggest questions.

1. Is it too late to switch to a BA role?
2. What are the skills,tools or certifications required?
3. How should I approach a job opening, given that I have no work experience as a BA.

Pls do pitch in your thoughts

If I invest in Eth today, would it be smart? Or should I wait till it cools down?

If a senior partner referred me, and I still haven't heard back after 4 weeks, what could be the reason as to the delay? Am I not getting an interview?

What does anyone know of real estate in Web3? I keep hearing about it but it feels so foreign that I wouldn't know where to begin.

Can anyone please help me with the Salary for 4 years experienced MEAN stack developer?

Hi,

Anyone joining back to Accenture after leaving?

Does HSBC HDPI provide transport facility in Hyderabad?
If yes, is it free or chargeable?

Anyone up for watching the Euro 2020 finals this Sunday? M30

Single 25 F. Any single males 25-30 yrs on here?

new to the bowl, just saying hi!

What does being a chief in a bowl mean?

How's everyone doing this weekend?

What’s everyone a/s in this bowl?

Would you marry someone that’s unemployed or doesn’t want to work? What’s the minimum salary you can accept from your SO ?

Any single female fish is this bowl enjoy dating men In their late 30s

33M returning to NYC on Saturday. Anyone up for a Sunday brunch, cocktails, or a Central Park workout?

Who's free tn and wants to mingle? 26/m

What bars do men in their 30s frequent?

Any 40+ women here interested to make new friends? 40+ man here.

Meet up Announcement: start your Labor Day weekend off right! Tomorrow, 9/4 @ 5:30PM. Heckscher Playground. Comment if you want to be added to the group!

Any ladies want to go to happy hour tomorrow? 💁‍♀️ here

Damn! Why's it so silent in here 😅 35M NYC

Single 30M working at a tech firm.
I would love to buy shoes for a few ladies

Any single F looking to get dinner or drinks today evening? 35 M here.

So many people live in NYC but still it feels like the loneliness place on the planet. Does anybody have positive stories from dating apps? How do you guys meet ppl in general?

Welcome, friends! I created this community to meet others in the city during these strange times.

This will primarily serve as a safe space to meet friends. If your vibe is more on the dating end, that's fine too.

Let's be kind, inclusive, and respectful. I've already met some of you in person, looking forward to meet more folks here!

Do women like to be bought items out of appreciation ?