This has happened to me a couple of times. Why do men ask me to take them to parties? I just think it’s kind of odd. I have never met them and they’ll text me and then they’ll ask me what I’m doing this weekend and if I say oh, I’m hanging out with my friends or I’m going to so and so party, they are always like. Oh well where’s my invite? Like I have never even met you. Why would I take you to a party with me?

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So how about taking me to a party? ;)

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They’re noncommittal, don’t want to take you on a proper date or are joking 🙃

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I don’t think they are joking. It’s def noncommittal then

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