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I wouldn't worry too much. Unlikely he did in front of other colleagues. And even if he did, more of a reflection on him than you. If you feel strongly about it i.e. don't want him to do that again. Then honestly I would just grab a coffee with him and ask him about in a jokey way; "hey do u remember you called me? How drunk were you" Everyone does stupid shit when they're drunk. Just ask. Otherwise you'll end up worse case scenario thinking when u never know maybe he called the wrong number or just went through a bad break up and is a bit lonely, maybe he really likes you....nothing wrong in either of those things. I think the concern is that you don't want to be potentially viewed in a negative light at work. Which is very fair and professional of you. Part of being a professional is dealing with these situations in an elegant and non judgemental way. He'll end up respecting you more for dealing with it head on in a kind but firm way than sweeping it under the rug. Hope this helps.
I would always give someone the benefit of the doubt before an escalation to HR.
I think companies have policies. I believe the first requests ok, but once you say no, then your manager should stop. Just be careful that you don't violate company policies.
Oh, God. That must have been quite the show for the others lol! Let's just hope he remembers it the next day and actually apologizes to you for it. If it ever happens again and it makes you uncomfortable, don't hesitate to go to HR.
Have you talked to him since the incident? I really do hope he apologized for it and that it doesn't happen again. I'm cringing from the thought of it since he's your manager.
I'm curious how the both of you dealt with it the day after this happened. I don't want to think much about it but it just creeps me out. I hope you still feel safe after this.
How has everything been, OP? I hope he apologized for his behavior that night. I couldn't imagine how awkward the day after this incident was.