This trend of having guests wear all black to your wedding is baffling to me but I also kind of like it. Does anyone else get funeral vibes?

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I helped my MOB pick out a stunning formal off the shoulder dress that is black. My dad had the same comment. I said you'll be in a black tux, she's looks fab.

i live in the northeast so most people wear black to formal events anyway , it’s funny to me that people see this as wrong

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