Tired biglaw father of 3 running the Boston Marathon today. Please pray for me

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Sir… you qualified for the marathon under these circumstances. I think you’ll be fine. In any event, good luck.

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You know you don’t have to do this?

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So real

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You’re doing great sweetie

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Incredible. Truly. I opted out of biglaw because I didn’t feel like my family could handle the strain of biglaw while raising kids. We have 4 now. I feel like I made the right decision for me, but it is awesome to see you rocking yours! You got this!

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You trained for a marathon? Lol sounds like you have capacity at work

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Pacing 2700 right now. Firm weirdly didn’t demand my availability at 4am on a Saturday morning during my 20 mile long runs

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Good luck!

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Congrats in advance!

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How’d you go?

Qualifying while doing big law is super impressive.

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Thank you C1!! Truly amazing experience. I took my time and just had fun and ran it in 4 hours.

Good luck, and congratulations on running in it—that’s an amazing accomplishment!

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