Love is patient and kind.
Love is not jealous, it does not brag, and it is not proud. 
Love is not rude, it is not selfish, and it cannot be made angry easily.
Love does not remember wrongs done against it.  
Love is never happy when others do wrong, but it is always happy with the truth.  
Love never gives up on people. It never stops trusting, never loses hope, and never quits. 
Love will never end.
Humbled, convicted, but thankful. Our Father, Jesus and the Holy Spirit love us this way!

I’m (early30s) about 8 months into a relationship with a 40m. Things are wonderful in every aspect, but he is absolutely atrocious with his finances. I felt it becoming an issue about two months ago. He forgets about auto payments and just generally doesn’t care. I sat down with him and looked at everything and even after talking it out he still continues to stress and it’s now causing me stress. I had a final discussion with him today about it and he went on abt how love isn’t enough for me…

Well, I was the one who broke it off. I couldn’t get him to love me the way I needed or even respect me enough. It’s been 6 weeks of not seeing each other. We messaged this week. He doesn’t get it…. His messages show he still doesn’t know what he wants. Yet, if I am totally honest, I hate how part of me wishes he would do a grand gesture/finally decide to be a better man. It’s delusional. It’s crazy how love can be so rosy, sweet & blinding that the red flags seem surmountable.

Can we all agree that gender reveal parties are an annoying thing to subject your friends to?

I ended my relationship of 6 years about 3 months ago bc he said he might regret not having kids later down the line. we were always on the fence but I’m leaning towards no. It hurts so much having to walk away from an otherwise perfect relationship. Wish this was easier…

I hate it when people try to bond with me over trauma when their trauma is that they fight a lot with their spouse or they didn’t get the promotion they wanted. How is that staring death in the face??

How many of you are staying in a marriage where there’s lack of true love but there is comfort or kids or whatever else holding you back? I crave that love but it’s easier to just stay put than leave. Sigh

Europe!
What is reasonable salary growth coefficient when going from FTE to consultant?
My current reasoning is 2x as
* We get 100% parental leave for 6 months in current company
* Risk mitigation

I have never been a consultant before, what other factors should one consider?

Divorce or not? Loveless marriage, but love our 2 children and enjoying being close to them. Seeing my brother struggle with joint custody and think this is not for me. Too lazy/busy to rock the boat.

Spending a weekend with my fiancé’s family out of town and quite literally my future FIL burps out loud 10x a day with no shame and his mom is a narcissistic monster in law just have no clue how these bizarre ppl created such a lovely person in my fiancé. Don’t need advice, just want to bitch. Can anyone relate??

Anyone know if the paid 16 week parental leave is available only once or for each birth?

Your child asks you if they should become a nurse. What do you say?

Which offer is better?
€100K per year in Netherlands (with 30% ruling) OR
45000 AED / month in Dubai?

For a family with a kid.
Tech stack: SRE/DevOps/ Cloud architect
People staying in Europe and dubai please comment.

My priorities: Long term stay, better education , quality life, location with better security, law n order and less hussels.

I have got an offer based in Boblingen, Germany with 60k euro as fixed. Will it be enough for a couple with a 3 year old kid ? My major expense would be accommodation, groceries, kid’s school and transportation. Please do let me know your valuable inputs. TIA

I dated my ex for about 4 years and before we broke up we had moved in together. We lived together for about 6 months before breaking up. I kept the apartment and she moved out. Is this something I should tell my current girlfriend without it coming up naturally? She has told me she doesn’t care about what happened in my past relationships and that she is happy to talk about them but that we don’t need to. I’m just not sure if I should tell her about it, or wait for it to come up in conversation

Well...I've finally made it in my marriage when we are reading each other's minds.

Why are potential business happenings by a candidate’s kid disqualifying but (gestures wildly) for the other candidate not for TSers? Going to your resort, conducting federal business at your property, having foreign officials stay, not doing a blind trust, being granted trademarks/land deals in other countries, promoting your products/books in office, calling out other companies? Stop pretending you care or advocate for anything good/true.

This is a question about friendships. Two friends got into a really bad fight this past weekend. They have each asked me to hang out this weekend. What do I do? I don’t want to have to choose sides. One is a friend I’ve known a little longer and has been a good friend and so she would feel betrayed and angry if she knew I were still friends with her now-enemy. The other I’ve known less longer, but we seem more compatible. Advice??

What margins and font size are you all using for your resume?

Solid background and thinking of a dual MBA/MS degree at H/S. Class of ‘19 — worth applying R2 or wait a year? Didn’t get in the H/S deferral program in 2019 and heard this year is quite competitive.

Anyone want to refer me here? I know there are referral bonuses. 3 YOE been at Morgan for a year in WM ops. Preferably looking to get in to IB or Risk.

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Can I live comfortably in Dubai on 25k a month? With wife and kid too?

I started doing the 90 min waking rule for when to drink coffee and I’m wondering if it’s all fluff, thoughts? I use to look forward to it.

Can someone refer of SAP BASIS profile for HP please?

YOE: 6.4
Notice period : 15 days left

Thanks

Compliments to Walgreens creative team. Love the new pharmacy commercial with a focus on sun damaged skin.

What books would you recommend for someone who is just starting out in security and wants to build strong fundamentals?

How do you professionally address a noticeable lack of diversity on your team? More than 85% of my team is white or white passing, and of the remaining individuals none are Black, Indigenous, or AAPI.

Just got some fun news, my CEO decided he wants to have an office Christmas party this and just told me I'm in charge of it... Does anyone have any suggestions on where I can host a party for around Christmas for 150-220 people? I know this is super last minute

Any tips for how to make internal networking feel more natural? I know face time without a specific client need is important, but I can't find a way to make it feel authentic.

Looking for in-house work, feeling depressed about the options in Chicago. Anyone have any leads or advice?

Any fish from LEK London willing to refer? Currently interviewing with other top consulting firms in London and keen to pursue LEK
YOE: 6
Appreciate the help!

I am having an experience of 9+ years into analytics domain with hands on exposure to data science and machine learning.
Please can you refer me in your organization for any suitable position.
Thanks in advance.

Hi pals! Anyone here currently working at Accenture open to referring me to an Account Exec role ?

Looking for IJP . Any open positions in u r Hyderabad team. Skills Java, Angular and AWS. Applied for few positions in Jobs portal but I didn't any response.

Hi guys.
Can anyone please share company perks and monitory benefits and JPMC for software engineer

Greetings Saints! 2Chronicles 16:9 KJV
For the eyes of the LORD run to and fro throughout the whole earth, to shew himself strong in the behalf of them whose heart is perfect toward HIM. Herein thou hast done foolishly: therefore from henceforth that shalt have wars. Why is the Christian room is so quiet? Where are the believers? If you are believers; comment or drop your favorite verse below.

I just want to say I’m about to say a collective prayer for all of us as we finish up this school year. It’s been a tough one. Aren’t they all? But we’ve almost made it. Great job everyone. God loves you.

I am so glad to have found this bowl! It isn't easy to share your faith in today's educational environment. So that makes me wonder ... how many of you work in Christian or private schools, and how many teach in public schools?

I'll go first: PUBLIC school in San Bernardino.

Invited my students to our Church's Youth group.
They actually came! Couldn't believe it.

I just have to keep reminding myself that God is in control. What truths are you holding on to today?

What are you praying for in this season?

How do y'all interact with your students when it comes to faith and your religion? Do your students know that you're a religious person?
I'm a youth leader at one of our local churches and I often talk to students who attend church about the services we have or suggest they should bring people.
Additionally, I have also started posting short videos on my instagram where I give a little encouraging message usually accompanied by a bible verse. Just a little something to show Jesus to students.

I hope everyone is having a great start to 2021.

What revelations have you received from God during this pandemic?

It’s Sunday, I pray that you are resting, filling up your cup before the week starts.
Immutable God
Psalm 31:3 ESV For you are my rock and my fortress; and for your name's sake you lead me and guide me;
# ❤️ Love God

Please pray for me. I’m going back into the classroom soon. I praying for all of you too. This may be a rough reentry. But I know God is with us. He can absorb the bounce.

Do you consider your teaching a ministry? How do you do Gods work in the classroom?

Does anyone out there agree that so much of the violence we are seeing in schools and society is a spiritual problem and not necessarily a political one? I’m not opposed to gun reform, but I think as long as a human being desires to hurt others, keeping people safe will be very difficult.

Anyone have any prayer requests? I think this may be a great place to join together in prayer for each other. I’m praying for grace right now? What do you need prayer for?

Psalm 118:24-26KJV This is the day which the Lord hath made; we will rejoice and be glad in it. What is one thing that you ought to rejoice about?

I just wanted to reach out and let you all know I understand how tired and beat down we all feel at this point in the year. I’m feeling it too. I also know exactly how students can try us. What I’m working on every day though is to see my kids as God does… not the kids that know how to push buttons and drive me crazy, but as the beautiful lives they are, all deserving of the best we can give them every day. I know it’s not easy, but that’s what I’m working on.

Hi All!
Do any of you have a prayer group at work? Do you include students in the group?

Asking for prayer… I’ve been sick with the flu since last Friday. I have severe asthma and this has knocked me out. Praying for complete healing with no residual effects.

What’s your prayer as the school year is about to unfold?