What are you all reading other than maternity help books? Any book recommendations for after baby is born? Mainly around how to keep the baby safe from injuries and incidents.

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Crib Sheet

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All the books by Emily Oster! Expecting Better, Crib Sheet, The Family Firm

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Also we bought the Portable Pediatrician for a quick skim and to have on hand

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Babywise is very outdated and embarrassingly un-woke. BUT the simple advice and especially the sample schedules (chat 5) were indispensable to us. Highly recommend.

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I’ve found Bringing Up Bebe to be an entertaining read (much easier than the mostly dry baby books out there…). If you want more of a baby ‘instruction manual’ or reference guide, Moms on Call is great - we refer to it multiple times per week now that our baby is here.

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