Too shy to post my face so here are my legs

I’m a 26 year old female and I’ve known (for the most part) I’m attracted to girls for 8ish years. However, I’ve never dated a girl so I’ve never necessarily “come out”... continued...

Is it irrational for me to get an “ick” for this?

I went on a “date” recently. I paid for the tab as they were going to the bathroom. As we were leaving they said “thanks for lunch” — I was hoping they’d at least ask to Venmo me half as a kind gesture. Following lunch we grabbed dessert. I was hoping they’d offer to cover dessert since I covered lunch but it didn’t happen.

I am fine w/ paying but I was hoping the gesture would at least be presented… am I crazy?

Anyone know a place to safely meet other kinksters?

Any F in the Bay Area wana have some exciting time?

Bored on a Sunday night, any female fish feel like chatting

Sweet and salty 47 yr old single female. Looking for a funloving, occasional companion to divert attention to fun things from the daily travails in consulting. 🍿🍫

Recently divorced after 10+ yrs (40M, Denver)... Starting to figure out dating again. What age difference is it too cringe to try to date?... 10 yrs younger ok? If you're low 30'sF us a 40M in play?

Any 🐠es interested in having a meet up this month?

Has anyone had any luck using ‘The League’ dating app? I’m a 29yo woman based in Houston.

Single 🐟 joining business school in the fall... is dating within your class/cohort considered bad practice?

Best part about being single: Not having to hold in my gas ! What is the best part of it for you??

Actually starting to think I’ll be single forever. The apps go nowhere. How are you guys meeting people right now?

What is the best way to attract a new mate? I got out of a 7 year relationship (he was cheating on me for half of it) and I’m so confused on where to even start. I have a therapist and working on my trust issues - but I have self confidence issues. I’ve been burned for being ‘unattractive’. But I’ve seen girls that are objectively more unattractive than me have mates. So it must be a confidence issue? Those girls seem to glow while I am so sad. Or it’s the guys I go on dates with?

Here's an update re the matchmaking as promised - one (potential) match has been made! 😜😄

But not enough profiles to create more matches 🤷🏻‍♀️. There are some great candidates waiting to be matched tho but more submissions are needed.

My natural instinct is to assume rejection if I have conflict with a partner or don’t think my feelings are reciprocated. I’ll try to bring it up with them, but I’ll say “if you want to end this feel free” so it doesn’t hurt me (and they can say what they really mean instead of sugarcoating). Someone told me today that they just assume I’m not interested because I always seem to “run” but I’m not sure how to bring up problems/feelings otherwise. How do you approach these hard questions?

Has anyone had any luck with the apps? Still not finding it easy to meet in RL, so resorting to apps but I know they have a rough track record. Any recommendations?

What do young single people do other then date and hang with friends?

Men- if you text a girl you “like” but have never asked out on a date that you missed her and she responds “you could ask me out on a date”. How would you respond?

What’s the best way to meet other DL gay dudes who are not into the boystown scene?

Ladies what are the best apps to find a one night stand with a normal guy?

Looking for solid, affordable Airbnb or hotel options in SFO

11 likes to enable DM ! Please help

Any recommendations for underrated non touristy places/things to do in NYC? I've done/seen all the major tourist areas and am going back in a week.

Have you ever applied to a lower level position and convinced them to just give you the title you already have? Is it just a matter of salary and if they can afford you/your title?

Just got a freelance gig for $1250 for 2 shoot days, but they’re asking for hourly rate for prep days. Not sure what rate to give them & if I should base it on a 10 or 12 hr hourly rate. It’s LA based & content/digital production. I’m not a fan of hourly rates, but I don’t want to lose the gig or end up agreeing to less days than I actually end up working..

Hi all - making my first car purchase and would love to hear your opinion. Thoughts on buying a 2019 Subaru Crosstrek Limited ($32k, 26k miles) vs 2019 Honda HRV EX ($24k, 30k miles)

Long term, what does maintenance look on either of these? What will last longer? ty!

How is it coming into Deloitte as an experienced hire vs grad? Is there a significant disadvantage in not joining as an analyst level/grad scheme or are they likely to take approach of last-in, first-out when recession continues?

What’s your side hustle?

Any good/cool small agencies (50-100) in Chicago?

Does any one use Wit and Wisdom reading? I am looking for PowerPoints, Slides, Reaources, etc ...

Moving into a new apartment with no living room / kitchen furniture and appliances (e.g., vacuum, lamps, chairs). If anyone is moving out and wants to offer a friendly fire sale, please let me know!

Closer to midtown is preferable.

Hey Fishes,can anyone help me understand how much would be GSK willing to pay for Grade 6 ? And how’s the other benefits that come at this level

Could you please confirm if there is cab facility for Shollinganallur office,since I will have to WFO for 3 days in a week


Also,if cab is available,can you please share the charges for the same.

AirPods just kicked it.. looking at the Jabra Elite Active 75t - active high mike runner but on calls 14 hours a day..

Any feedback?

I am drunk. AMA

Why can’t my exes leave me alone

Tips for someone that’s trying to get pregnant but struggling with fertility issues

I came to US few years ago , I have a heavy accent and still struggle to express myself fluently at times. Any advice on best online resources to help with my accent/fluency?

My car that I purchased in 2020 has been the best performing asset I own right now

Been broken up for awhile..dated other people and developed serious feelings for someone else. It didn’t work out but I thought I had moved on till my ex moved to the same city and we started hanging out since I was helping them settle in. Saw we changed so much..in a good way and got along so well Yesterday he pocket dialed me nonstop and I heard his date even when I didn’t want to. I felt bad and now I’m questioning if I never really moved on.. it sucks how much it hurts even now after 2 years

Teeny confession/victory, but today I successfully folded hospital corners for the first time...at the age of twenty seven, I’m finally on par with an eight year old at bed making skills.

Why I could never be a manager:
If one of my reports called me and cried, I would hang up on them. Can’t deal with that.

Why are some people willing to do anything / obsessed about getting the green card in the U.S.?

When I asked them, they usually say they like American lifestyle. I love lifestyle in France, but I was in France, I was OK if I can't stay. Just trying to understand here so that I can have more empathy.

What’s the best advice you’ve ever received? Life or career wise

Online dating apps are a mess 🤢

How old were you when you first took a blue pill/viagra? Currently 26 and a buddy doesn’t stop raving about it, tempted but feels too young to try?

Might jump right in and enroll in very expensive bjj classes today. Any F 🐠 already practicing? Advice/words of encouragement for a newbie?

Post a pic of your food and I’ll rate 1-10. Friday food party begins here 🍜

I sacrificed my health to achieve some major professional accomplishments, gaining significant weight along the way.

Now I feel like my weight is impacting my perception, despite my outstanding experience and credentials. FML.

I hurt. I feel like I can never do enough to get ahead. Can't seem to land a new job to make enough money to survive. And as a man whenever I talk to someone about how I'm feeling all I get is, "Welcome to being a husband and father!" Every 1 step forward I try and take i get pushed 2 steps back. Feeling incapable.

How many of you do some bicep curls before going out on a date?