What’s the best way to meet other DL gay dudes who are not into the boystown scene?

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Hmm, I think there are many gay dudes not in to the boystown scene. The usual hookup apps might be your best bet if you are only seeking DL mates

Let's leverage existing infrastructure. Either do GroupMe again or make a channel within the Discord?

Why DL?

I’m gay not into btown but not discrete.

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