What do you guys do on the weekends? I'm living in a new city and don't know anyone here other than my GF who works weekends. All I do is Gym and cook, then idk what to do the remaining time. I feel I should learn/study skills but I'm already burnt out during the weekdays. Any suggestions for hobbies or things to do so I'm not sitting on the couch all day?

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Moving to a new city is all about giving yourself opportunities to meet and interact with people even if they won’t end up being your new circle of friends. Instead of sitting on the couch, you could sit on a park bench and interact with others. You can go into the office for work to meet your coworkers. You can attend events put on my various groups or by the city. Go out with the intention of being around people. That will open up many doors for meeting friends who will invite you to other events etc. Just put yourself out there

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Getting absolutely shredded though no doubt.

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No doubt about it

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Have never related to any post on this app more. I’m personally going to try and join intramural soccer/baseball teams so that I can meet new people. Might try to pick up a martial art like boxing as well.

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Was thinking about more of a ‘contact’ boxing gym, hard to not talk after slapping each other around lol

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Tennis, golf, walk my dog

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Lmao yess y’all would get along with most straight white men in corp America.

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Pretty much the same lol. Gym, go on walks, maybe go see a movie or go explore a new place in the city/restaurant

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Yeah it's hard making friends organically if you WFH

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Same… I live in Charlotte and my gf is a nurse who works 3/days a week and after work it’s always the same thing - go to the gym, make dinner, watch tv, bed, work - repeat. We are always bored and that is making her want a dog now. Hard making friends in a new city, as I only know 2 people here and I’ve been in NC for almost a year.

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Following up on this, look up “Charlotte” in the bowl search feed and join the Charlotte bowl. We can plan things from there

Many cities put on street fairs or farmers markets or other fun walkable activities during the summer. Google what’s going on in your city each weekend!

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Try meeting new people through Bumble BFF

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Yeah if it's bad for a F it'll definitely be bad for a M

get #sloshed

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I like to build legos

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You could also go to an animal shelter/ foster/ walk pets

^ same for Atlanta

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I just moved to Chicago a month ago and I’ve been meeting people by going to festivals, going to group workout/yoga classes, and just using dating apps (with the intentions of at least making friends). If you’re clear on dating apps that you’re new, want to make friends, and are down for a drink most people would do it with you. I would just try to go to events around your city where people almost have to communicate with each other to enjoy the experience— if that makes sense. That’s how I’ve met all the friends I have now :)

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Yeah I’m a gay male I used Bumble (didn’t really like the BFF feature tbh), Tinder, and I had Hinge downloaded but never used it

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I used Meetup to find a swing dance group, I’d suggest seeing if they have anything related to your hobbies!

I'm in CT and there's no good MeetUp here unfortunately:(

I used meetup to join a tennis group and joined a couple of intermural sports leagues. I also remember to give myself some time to decompress, so some weekends I spent the day inside and play video games or watch movies.

The one I joined is in houston. It's called young adult tennis group (21-39)

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If any of y’all are in this boat and living in Dallas feel free to dm me!

What city?

Hartford area

Start a side hustle, join a community organization, volunteer for a nonprofit, mentor, MeetUps...I mean there's soooo much lol

Schedule time with friends, hang with my fiancée, go shooting, play video games like a potato

That’s enough to pack my days 😶

She’s busy the next three weeks… I can barely get time on her calendar, so good luck 🙃

Try this as well as trying to date in a new city .

I feel dating would be a bit easier since I could use apps, no real good apps for finding friends :(

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Take up martial arts (BJJ, Boxing, etc.) you’ll meet a ton of cool people while training new skills / exercising

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