What kind of purse would you carry to a work cocktail hour where you will be standing around and mingling? I feel weird carrying my big purse that I take to the office since I won’t need my laptop. And one of my flashier evening bags or casual cross body bags also feels inappropriate.

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Depending on how much stuff you carry in your bag, I would do a WOC or my trusted senreve aria bag on gold chain or polene nano. Also, I have seen some women to carry minimalist clutches and checking in their totes in coat closets for such events.

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I’d carry a small purse, I like the LV Félicie Pochette or something of that size. Just enough for phone, credit card and lipstick.

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The Lululemon go everywhere cross body is my go to.

https://shop.lululemon.com/p/bags/Everywhere-Belt-Bag-1L-Metal/_/prod11670119?color=3385&sz=ONESIZE&skuId=150051277

Agreed with PMM. This is a cute bag, but extremely inappropriate for a cocktail event

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Honestly I’d just bring my work bag since I’d be coming from work

I just use my thin leather cross body bag, it has a small strap that I can hang it from hooks when available

Depending on the location, often I’ll leave everything at the office and stop back after the event when on my way home to pick it up

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