What opinion on dating will have you like this? Mine is that app-based relationships will never last because you build up too many expectations about the person before you even meet them for the first time. I don't think that's a good way to start a relationship with someone new. What's your unpopular dating opinion?

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Mine is that growing to love or to be attracted to someone isn’t ideal over time because you’ve basically convinced yourself of why you should like the person, so it’s not genuine.

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OP I think that can be solved by meeting ASAP and not conflating texting with some kind of intimacy. Reality will pop those bubbles real quick lol. Plenty of success stories from people meeting through apps.

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I think that moving in before marriage should be way more normalized, even if you're religious. Less people would get divorced early if they spent more time getting to know each other before they tied the knot forever. I know people think it's untraditional, but I think it would help a lot.

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Funny. Data shows you’re more likely to get divorced if you do this.

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Mine is - cut off man quick at the first sign of any pink or red flags

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OP, Do you have this view even if they’ve lived together before marriage and end up marrying?

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