How did you find your queer affirming therapist? I need to do some soul searching and I need an understanding guide

Does anybody have ideas on how to use 2 weeks of vacation during covid? Can’t visit family without international travel, most friends are with their family/SOs and social distancing. Pto is expiring so it’s use it or lose it. Im in NYC. Thank you!

Any Indian national recently came to US through the London Heathrow airport.

Parents coming from India and have a layover at London airport. Are there any covid restrictions we need to worry about?

They are fully vaccinated and they will have a negative Covid test 12 hours before the start of the journey.

What are the healthiest oils to cook with?

Does anyone have a list of the things (food, drink, other OTC meds) that make adderall less effective? I know I can simple google search and ask my doctor but want to hear other peoples thoughts…I love drinking my coffee to wake me up in the morning but I’m afraid it’s making my meds less bc of its acidic nature 😵

Stimulants and sweating! I’m going back to the office and never used them while in the office, I don’t want to look or be sweaty haha any advice? I also don’t want to look weird drinking 6L of water as I do in person

For the first time in my life, I know what I’m supposed to do at my job, with relationships around me and it’s all because the enormous sense of anxiety I used to experience evaporated during quarantine. I didn’t know that I lived with so much anxiety that it crippled me. I didn’t know I needed this time to myself.

Is it standard or common for ad agencies to cover egg freezing and/or IVF? It’s a common perk in the US

My fellow ADHD professionals,
Have you told your employer about your ADHD diagnosis? If you have then how have it benefited you? If you haven’t then why do you think it was the right move not to tell? I’m contemplating if I should tell my employer or not.

Has anybody been engagement ring shopping in the last 6 months? Any recommendations on places that are taking (CDC-recommended) COVID precautions?

My gf just got a peloton and now she is insufferable. “Peloton” this and “peloton” that. She even said “you can’t sit with me anymore because you don’t have a peloton”. She’s out of control!

I need to spend my $500 wellness subsidy before May. Any ideas? Peloton is too expensive don’t want to spend that much.

Which health insurance your company providing?

If you're looking for inspirational films about addiction I highly recommend The Resurrection of Jake the Snake Roberts. It's a documentary about the wrestler who had about as bad an addiction problem as you can imagine. It goes through his problems, despair, but also shows his road to recovery through platonic love, support, and he finds redemption. It's great for anyone like me that tried and failed to get sober for years. I have over a year now for the first time.

How would you handle not getting a lunch break when you are a salaried employee treating patients for 40 hours a week? I don’t get documentation time either, but all notes are to be completed the same day. Some of us have reached out to HR and we’re told to discuss it with the regional director, but the regional director says we’d have to come in early or leave late to block out a lunch break. My commute is an hour each way, so I’d prefer not to make my day any longer. Advice?

--KSG--

Is your blood pressure and anxiety rocketing or are you normal?

Brb, still busy refreshing emails

So I've been noticing that when I get moving in my body, my mood changes almost instantly to a better one and my sleep at night is so much better. Would you all be interested in a 5 day challenge this

Retrieval done, 26 eggs later! :) Good luck to all of you with retrievals coming up or are somewhere in the process! Fingers crossed for strong embryos!

I am trying to move from finance (IB tech) to fintech and have 15+ years of experience. I get a feeling my number of years of experience is working against me as all the companies want is young blood. Am I right in thinking this - what can I do to fix it other than reverse aging :-) ?

Struggling with separating what's for real and what my anxiety is making me believe. Like when I am stressing about something, I don't know if things are going south and I should be doing something...

Gym recommendations? Thinking about trying Vasa but open to anything!

Do we get anything on diwali from optum

Hi Citi Sharks,

How many of you have got pop up during netbanking Or mail to switch from citi account to Axis account. How long can we have the citi bank, I have few FD s as well not sure what will happen. Citi Citicorp services india pvt ltd

Has anyone joined TCS recently after completing in person onboarding? When did you receive the induction link and employee id? My in person onboarding was completed yesterday but I haven't received any email yet.

Have you been able to spend more time with your kids during the pandemic? How?

Has anyone tried CeraVe daytime face lotion with 30 spf? I use and love the PM (even during the day in winter) and want to add SPF during the day without risking breakouts. Unfortunately I have dry, yet sensitive, acne prone skin.

Hello,

If I joined HCl and will have to leave within probation period, do I have to pay anything to HCL? Anyone has any idea. (There was no buyout of NP by HCL)

Thanks

One of my firend got offer in clarivate and HCL. Can you suggest which would be best?

Dating question:not really an appropriate place to put it but its the only anon forum i have access to.
We’ve only been dating for 4 months and i feel like its gone to shit. We’re constantly fighting and everything is telling me its not worth it or not going to work... but i love her. We’ve tried to talk things out but nothings really changed on her end. I feel like we’re both just dragging eachother down. Should I end things? Maybe just focus on my career? I dont want to cuz i love her but idk

Hi Everyone, does anyone know the salary bands for SMs in tech consulting at EY London?

I am looking for jobs currently I am working as sales and marketing and also I don't have any degree but I am good in basic skills. Pls message me if you have any.@

I got offer as Associate (Technology) from pwc. Can I extend my joining date for 3-4 weeks?

binannce acct on hold??

I’ve 3 years of sales experience in retail ( reached 90k over target) and 2 years of digital marketing experience, I love selling and building connections with people, I want to join a Saas company and work as a SDR but keeping getting rejected due to the fact that I’ve no saas selling experience. I love to learn! Is there any recommended courses or anything I can do to get my foot in the door?

I’m a native English and mandarin speaker based in Dublin, Ireland.

Does your salary band change if interviewing for a purely remote role? They pay should be based on my location, not the company's, right?

Shall we organize a gathering next week?

Time to brunch.... ! Chicago is finally reopening

Anyone around this bowl?

Two weeks off and was hoping to say hi to some of you , individually or in a socially distanced small group setting , if anyone is around. Please let me know:)

Maybe holiday party is ambitious. Any interest in a Friday afternoon happy hour?

GroupMe in comments! (Thanks @Amazon): Those who'll be in Chicago next week, figured we could meet up:

Monday 2/24, 8pm Sidetrack, in the corner side bar with the long table, connected to glass bar.

How’s everyone doing? The lack of sex really put me into a depressed state.

How's the scene in chicago these days?

Hello 👋 just found out about this community today. Would love to meet some folks in the city!

Hi queers, queens and everything in between 💕

Looking for a watermelon pit ticket for Harry Styles the 24th the united center. Anyone have one to sale or a reputable hook up? looking to surprise my daughter for her birthday!! Help a momma out please!

What’s a good bar where a single lesbian can mingle with other queer ladies?

Just found out about this too! How are y’all doing ? Would love to connect.

Who's our new joiner?

Any suggestions for a good gay bar that is more wine/cocktail centric (vs sidetrack or roscoes)?

What’s the best way to meet other DL gay dudes who are not into the boystown scene?

PSA - Sidetrack is open! 🤔

Haha this is going to sound pretty shallow, but are there any young guys that are on good looking/masculine/dl-ish side looking to chat/snap? 22M here

We have a bowl leader? Who pins post?!? Show yourself!