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I’m not inviting anyone from work.
Rising Star
only people you’re legitimately friends with from work. there’s no need to invite coworkers you don’t have a real relationship with
Only work besties got an invite to mine
I didn't invite anyone from my current job. I invited 2 people I worked with at previous jobs because we became friends outside of work.
I ended up inviting all of the attorneys in my office because I was friends with all but 2 of them. The two got a later invite after I got some Nos, and they already had plans. I invited select support staff who I was close with. That being said, I’m probably not the norm. I’m very close with most of my coworkers. If I had gotten married a few years earlier, I would not have invited my bosses. I would just invite the ones you are friends with.
I'm only inviting one coworker who is an actual friend and we don't work together anymore. My partner is inviting a bunch of people from his work, but he has been there 8+ years and works in person and is actually friends with them (I am too with some). Everyone is different, just do what feels right!
I have invited the two partners I have worked under for a long time as they have been important to my life as a whole and then only coworkers that I actually spend time with outside of work voluntarily.
Pro
unless you work in a very small office, invite only people with whom you are close. Would you invite them to an in home Christmas party? If you work with only a few people, you might want to invite everyone. For instance 7 person office, you would call 2 good friends... just invite 2, consider 5 or 6 good friends, invite everyone.