What's with the saturation of self help/ productivity books on social media (reddit, Instagram etc.) ? Not saying I don't mind reading them, but I see this quite a bit. Know a few people who consciously only read non fiction instead. Just thinking aloud over here. Would like to hear what you guys think ?

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It's a fallacy. Reading self help makes us feel like we are working towards self improvement without putting in the efforts of actually applying those principles in our life. Obsessively reading the books keep us on a happiness treadmill. Once started it's difficult to stop without feeling guilt and resentment towards our present selves.

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I feel most of the self-help books are for beginners who are either not yet introduced to the world of books or find it difficult to stay upbeat & motivated. Once you’ve decided the kind of person you wanna be and what you want to learn, there’s nothing that another self-help book can add to your perspective.

PS: I’ve been reading non-fiction for over 5 years now.

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I started out with self help books but later i realized i most of them were just for a short term motivation only of few of them actually give you tools you can implement in your life. Now i read more biographies and a bit of classic fiction.

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Best business-oriented, but novel-style books with good writing, style, & interesting characters? Not really self-help/advise focused, more of actual literature with business themes/plots. Any recs?

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Any books/self help materials for someone who is constantly worrying (and waste a lot of unnecessary time)? E.g. No matter if i pass or fail an interview, there is always something to worry about. The worrying/anxiety multiplies when I proceeded further in the interview stages. Now that I signed the offer and is pending background checks, my anxiety is off the roof as it itches closer to my starting date.

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There's a ton of self help and leadership books out there to help people in their careers. If there was one that was written front the lense of a public accounting, would you read it?

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Anyone have any recs for self help books? Looking for more relatable topics to myself I guess?

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Kindly recommend some self help books!

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Best self-help books on the market? I've been consistently unhappy lately. Something needs to change.

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Hi Account friends! It’s the start of a new year and I was hoping you all could share any book / newsletter / blog / course recommendations that help keep you up to snuff. Feeling a bit stale and like the last year has been a tactical grind. I want to brush up on modern thinking for our industry - the latest and greatest marketing books, strategy perspectives, creative self help, etc. to feel more alive as we start 2022.

Comment your favs and THANK YOU in advance!

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What “self help” books are you guys reading? I just read Untamed by Glennon Doyle and wow, I want to start from the beginning again, but feel like I should read something else. Would love any suggestions.

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I’ve suffered from workaholism for a long time. Thanks to a lot of great self help books and therapy, I’m no longer putting work on a pedestal and I’m spending a lot more time on self care and my marriage. But, unfortunately, I am now getting withdrawals, because my body is used to the daily adrenaline of throwing myself into work. It’s this terrible feeling of like anguish/unease in my gut, but I don’t have anything I’m worried about- it’s like my body wants to find something to worry about.

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Girlfriend has very obvious high functioning anxiety and body image issues that she admits but thinks she doesn’t need therapy or medication and that reading self-help books will help her. It’s not changing in the last several years and it’s impacting our relationship. Anyone have experience with their SO dealing with untreated anxiety? I know I can’t control her but would like to express my feelings without sending her into a spiral. For context, I’ve been in therapy for 12 months and medicated

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Hey fish: what are some of your favorite business/self-help books?

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Any suggestions for self help books on anxiety? Been dealing with anxiety for quite some time now and have been seeing a therapist but also just want to see what other resources are out there.

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Any recommendations for books for desi parents ? Politics , economics, world order , self help

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why do you read books ?

I will go first ⬇️

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Anyone planning to read something this long weekend ?

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This is for the working professions with terrible WLB. How do you find time to read books on your week days ?

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