When did you actually start to show? Not fully through my first trimester but some days after lunch I look so bloated that I think people can either tell I'm preggo or just think I've gained a lot of weight lol

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Around 18 weeks it started to look like a bump rather than just bloating.

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Same - for me it was 18 weeks for my first and 2nd pregnancy. But even now at 20 weeks I can pretty easily conceal it with the right clothes.

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For me, I was bloated like immediately but didn’t start looking pregnant until like 22-ish weeks, although it was a little borderline then even, depending on what I wore, and I drove my husband insane asking if I looked fat or pregnant for like 4 weeks after that.

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So I guess I just have to get comfortable looking bloated for the next few months - got it 🥲

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First pregnancy, 4 months ish and 2nd pregnancy it was much sooner

14ish weeks first pregnancy and 10ish second. I was bloated earlier but this is when I looked visibly pregnant to strangers and had a real bump. I am very petite though and get a huge basketball belly by the end. I have friends who have longer torsos than me and they didn’t show until 20+ weeks. Everyone carries differently!

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