When is a good time to tell big law firm you are pregnant? Reviews are coming up and I'm not sure if it would be better or worse to say it beforehand?

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I wouldn’t say anything until after

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So if there's a chance review will be a room for improvement review (not a PIP review but a needs some finessing) would you tell boss before review?

How far along are you? I’d wait until after reviews unless you think your review will be negative or you’re still pretty early (and can function normally, which I couldn’t)

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Thank you this is helpful. This leads me to think telling before might be a good option.

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Congratulations! I usually find out around the 20 week mark but my mentees often tell me a bit earlier.

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Honestly, if the review goes well, I might do it at the end. Like, “Thank you so much for your time today. As you know, I really feel like [XYZ positive comment about the firm]. I also wanted to share a personal update that I’m really excited about it…”

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