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High risk high reward but I married my wife through AA
I would totally agree with you honestly…. I think 10% of people in AA are good people …
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40M. What I’ve come to realize, is that I seem to attract (and be attracted to) people who are as healthy/unhealthy as I am.
It gets realllllly tricky to date because codependency runs rampant in folks who have addictions. And there are pitfalls like “trauma bonding” and “obsession being confused for love” and “enabling/relapse”.
I find it best to go slow, try not to hurt anyone, learn from mistakes, and communicate communicate communicate.
So far I (27) have not had much success 😂
I think most people in their 20s pretty much drink and drug all the time still or at least all the people I know and have met.
I've had some okayish experiences dating like 15-20 years older than me. I think in the 40s people get less obsessed with drinking and partying 24/7.
Success in volume? Yes. Meaningful success? No. I am the problem and giving up the drink has not solved everything. 27M
Lmao no, what a bold jump. It’s just my baggage, makes me not trust people or get to close.
I’ve seen it work for other people. Im in my 40’s now. I’m at the point where I think I’m just supposed to be single.
21 years.