Girl I was seeing 6 months ago went suddenly cold and blocked me off all socials saying she wasn’t ready etc. Now she’s tried to follow me on insta out of the blue. It hurt at the time and so has opened a bit of a wound. A bit confused as to what she might want?

What laptop we will get once we join EY GDS

Raise and bonus.

How do y’all discuss raises and bonuses? I just started here in March but I’m a super high performer. 185+ hours per month, glowing feedback, etc. I won’t have been here a full year which is a requirement. Is it worth it to bring it up or should I just let it go? I NEEEED a raise. I’d like a bonus. I’ve never negotiated salary before and it makes me nervous.

Need input.

Hey Fishes,

My variable pay is 1.42 lakhs (21% of fixed) , it is mentioned that I can get anywhere in between 0 to 21% . What is the average that I can expect??

Please reply if you have any relevant information.

Thanks

What is average salary of AM in Accenture?
Do they pay 27% variable to anyone at all!

In which hikes are given in Accenture??

Care to share any secrets to where you find stuff that’s going on culturally to use in advertising? Is there a resource of “what’s hot right now” type stuff? Thanks in advance.

What is a typical Salary and bonus for North American Sales Director

Anyone mind sharing their salary as a junior/graduate software developer in Ireland?

I manage a team and one of my employees has gotten accused of something that I'm really not sure that he did. There's no proof. I want to stick up for him, but obviously I don't want to be a person who doesn't believe an accusation. It will really harm his life long term if people decide that he is guilty of it. What should I do?

If I'm in GPS but want to apply to return to Commercial, is it okay to have PMD sponsors from GPS? How should I ask them to support me if I'm not gonna return to their practice?

PS also lmk if this is a bad idea in general for whatever reason

How do you deal with people who treat the creative department as their personal studio? I've recently joined a new business where other departments ask for quick turnaround stuff with no briefs or regard to the team's workloads or the strategy even.

I've done all the pushing back, advocating for the team, and educating those people about processes and how to get the best out of the team.

Has anyone successfully navigated this kind of situation before? How did you do it?

MDs - do you insist that nurses / staff / patients refer to your title as Dr. so and so; or do you allow people to address you by your first name?

My boss asked me to take care of some of the details of a project for her—the stuff that isn't really my area of expertise. And now I feel like a shirker because I haven't been able to finish them yet.

Why must recruiters call you to about a rejection over the phone? The automated rejection email after getting to final rounds is tacky, but feels like a personalized rejection email would do just nicely.

I applied for few SA roles at AWS after getting the SAA certificate and some badges like the “WAF” and “Advanced Migration”. I also optimized my resume recently trying to match what AWS would look for, but I did not get any 1st call or screening interview!
I also applied to some of the roles using friend’s referral. I have more than 15 years in IT infrastructure mainly in Storage systems (EMC, Hitachi) What could be the problem? Thanks.

I’m an SC with 5 years consulting experience making $111k in Charlotte at small consulting firm. Having trouble finding other companies to match it or beat it. Any firm recommendations?

Hiring for cleared folks on my team. Secret or above. Could move fast. Great change management project within the federal space. Salary range commensurate ($85-$130)ish, aiming for people with 5 years or less experience. DM me for more info if you know someone who might be a fit!

Has anyone taken a US CPA exam after the Canadian CFE? Can you share your experience? Was it as hard as the initial CFE?

PwC Private is hiring for assurance (SA, M, and SM). DM for referral!

Where do the gents sell their gently used luxe items? Poshmark? Others?

Starting to casually date again and I’m curious to know you alls thoughts on the being too available theory?

What usually warrants a married couple to start living separately and coparent their child? No job or financial constraints just that the wife moved from the house with their child to an apartment nearby.

Had a big fight with my gf last night (we live together), looking for advice. She’s a first gen immigrant and her niece recently returned from their home country. She was staying with her brother in law but he’s been drinking a lot so she felt unsafe. She came to crash at my place which I was fine with for a couple of nights. Yesterday she let me know that her niece needs to stay two weeks. She didn’t rly ask she just told me - which rly pissed me off. Am I wrong for wanting to be consulted?

How to still feel confident when siblings or cousins significant others are richer and make more money then you? Or what if they are better looking then your significant other?

Do you think it matters if you and your SO’s friends are similar? My boyfriend and my backgrounds are very different and while we are fine with each other’s friends, I would never mesh our friend groups. A part of me always get envious of couples who are able to expand their friend groups and do fun things together

Sometimes I wish when you were with a partner, there was a very clear sign that the person doesn’t love you so that you know it’s time to walk away. My partner and I keep having the same problems, and when I express he’s making me feel a certain way he says he didn’t mean it like that obviously. But when i say something and explain that it’s not how I meant it he doesn’t care and proceeds to label me as an unkind person who doesn’t support/love him unconditionally. *continued in comments*

How do you get over someone you never dated? I know this person is not right for me but I can’t get it off my head

Reunited with an ex and things moved very fast with the two of us spending a lot of time and nights together but we waited to consummate the “relationship”. Recently, he shared that he wasn’t in a position to be in a relationship right now and felt like he didn’t have enough to offer me but he cared deeply for me and was very attracted to me. Admittedly, he isn’t financially well-off and is heading back to school to finish his degree (we’re in our 30s) but it still hurts a lot.

Anyone proposed to your SO that you dated for under a year? How did that play out in the long run?

M, 44. After 21 years of marriage, my wife and I signed divorce papers with no contest. We have two adult daughters together, 18 and 21 So no child support, no alimony, and I make $170k at 44. I recently moved out of the marital house into an apartment,m. What should my next steps look like at this point? Do I need counseling?

Unsure if my bf and I are incompatible or if I’m not compromising enough. How do you know the difference? He has so many great qualities that I love but also lacks some qualities that I would like to have but idk if I would be giving up on someone that is great for little things.

Boyfriend and I have been dating for ~1.5 years and we still only spend weekends together. I want to move in together at the 2 year mark but bf thinks it’s too soon... just feels our relationship is stagnant and not going anywhere. Any thoughts from ppl who’ve gone through similar situations?

Every time there’s a little conflict I can’t handle it. How do I overcome this and get better at addressing it?

Why do women get judged for their clothes?

I (33M) got booted from Bumble for "promoting social media". I do not even have social media and I can't stand seeing Instagram or TikTok in a girl's bio - it's an instant turn off - so why would I do it?

Anyone have experience fighting a ban? Bumble was really the only app I liked.

Unrelated. Is there a way to completely block FaceTime. I hate FaceTime calls

Is this common? My girlfriend just does whatever I want or tell her to do strongly prefers it that way. If I ask her what she wants to do that weekend or where she wants to eat or if she wants to come over, it’s literally always “whatever you want”

Anyone ever gone through a separation with their spouse and have 3 small kids (under 6) in the equation? My spouse asked me for one tonight 🥲

Do you ever feel like you’re just never going to experience real love or be that ‘special someone’ for somebody? I sometimes feel like I am defective in some way, because despite being in my early 30s, I have never felt particularly special to any guy I have been with- it’s always felt like I am the space filler until they meet the right person