Wondering how our work personas play into our real lives. I realized that because I have experience scheduling, planning and getting s**t done, I am often left with the bulk of these in my relationship and family. I am learning to put my feet down now and not do the extra work. I'm so tapped out from doing it daily, the thought of replicating it in other sphere of my life isn't appealing. Any one else feel like this?

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Same! As a woman, we have a lot to balance. It's demanding, but mother nature gave us this gift. Maybe take a day to yourself or have a lazy Sunday. Good luck! You're ahhhhmazing!

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Thank you so much. It's really exhausting.

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