Looking for advice. My husband and I had a big fight yesterday, and I feel like he should be the one to reach out first as I feel he was in the wrong. I am still hurt, so I’m currently not planning to initiate.

The issue is my fertile window starts today and we’re trying to conceive. Would you let him know for timing, or wait it out? What would you do in this situation?

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If kids are important to you, don’t let the window pass permanently for temporary anger.

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You can still initiate a conversation if you feel he was in the wrong. You can preface the conversation with your perspective. Don’t let it drag unless you’re ready for resentment, which could destroy your relationship. Trust, I’ve been there…

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Maybe wait to get pregnant til you resolve this?

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