All righty, let's talk in-laws. At what point would I be justified pushing my MIL into a pool while hoping she struggles to swim just a little bit? I already have a mother; I didn't sign up for a second elderly woman criticizing everything I do and undermining my parenting.

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Sorry, just needed to blow off a little steam.

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Husband should make boundaries with her.

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So hard, especially once you have kids. Sending you patience and wisdom. Your husband needs to support you. Talk to him and help him to understand how important this is. I didn’t do this because it was a ‘too difficult’ conversation and that’s one reason I’m divorced now.

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