Went on 3 fancy dates, he spent couple hundred dollars by now. Just didn’t get the chance to kiss at 3rd date and now he lost interest. I tried asking for 4th date but he is non responsive. Why was it so weak.

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How did you not get a chance to kiss on the 3rd date?

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well thats all you can do i commend you for that !

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You know you could have initiated the kiss yourself

Take control … some guys want that because they are in their head. He’s probably inexperienced

Even the investment, pick up the next tab or do something that's free.

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