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My company LOA form has start/end date of STD and start/end date of paid parental leave. How do you figure out that? Should I call hr? Is STD used up first?

I’m 34 weeks pregnant with baby 2. OB asked for my birth plan preferences. Curious how many other mamas experienced similar and have any advice for advocation?

My delivery with baby 1 was uncomplicated… more

I'm 8 weeks pregnant and have been seriously struggling to stay alert and focused at work. It's a desk job, so I've been trying to get up and walk around every 15 minutes, which does help … more

Does anyone get very mild cramps in the legs / feet? It feels like period cramps except I feel it in my pelvic to my legs...currently 5 weeks and not necessarily alarmed as I think it's because my… more

Found out today that baby #2 is still breech at 32 weeks... likely no VBAC for me unless he decides to surprise us and flip on his own... 😮‍💨

They won't try an ECV either because they don't w… more

How is everyone coping with stress? Usually when I’m stuck in the airport I have a drink or two, but now all I have is stress and annoyance about my job (consultant) lol

I’m about to be 7 months pregnant, any recommendations for active wear shorts you recommend?

When did you actually start to show? Not fully through my first trimester but some days after lunch I look so bloated that I think people can either tell I'm preggo or just think I've gained a… more

A bit silly but I'm on the fence about having a baby shower. Not super close to my mom and I live 7+ hrs away from my hometown, so my husband and I would likely have to plan a shower ourselves (hi… more

I’m jealous of people who can wear normal clothes and just size up. That doesn’t work for me because then the arm holes and bust are too big, crotch is too baggy and long, etc. So im stuck with the ug… more

Is it normal to see multiple doctors during your pregnancy. The practice I'm having my 8-week check up mentioned that they rotate patients between different doctors throughout their pregnancy. The… more

How is it generally viewed nowadays to start a new job for 4-6 months, and then go on maternity leave?

Questions for those who didn’t return/don’t plan on returning after parental leave: Did you use all of your parental leave? Did you extend your leave (like short-term disability)? Also, when did you s… more

My husband's job interview today via Zoom (which I overheard since I was in the room beside his office) made me realize something. He mentioned we're having a baby in September, and this proba… more

When did you tell Manager that you're pregnant? I'm a consultant and I don't mind working, but the idea of doing team events every day for the next 4+ months seems exhausting. And its frow… more

I'm still in my first trimester and struggling to properly function without caffeine. I try to limit my intake to one small cup a day but find myself tired at the end of the day. Any tips on what … more

Just found out I’m 7 weeks pregnant, and the nausea and fatigue are really hitting me hard. For those who’ve been through this, how did you manage to keep working without letting your coworkers know?

Hello ladies (and gentlemen if any here) - can you advise on exercise during pregnancy. Used to be very active person and wonder how you all modified your exercise during pregnancy. Should i stick to … more

Has anyone felt baby move around 11 weeks? I know this sounds insane, but it’s my second baby and I swear I have felt a few tiny flutters. The sensation is like nothing else, so I feel pretty sure. I … more

Seeking advice/comfort; severe reflux. We have the happiest, most content 12 week old. She sleeps great, rarely fusses so it was hard to see anything was wrong. at around 9 weeks she started to have a… more

After maternity medical leave, I requested a 3 month WFH accommodation with two doctors notes for support. HR denied it and only allowed a two week WFH, or to separate me if I don’t take the two week … more

I’m currently 6 weeks pregnant and just received a job offer with a big salary bump from a tech company in NYC that includes 10 weeks of fully paid parental leave (after 6 months of employment - which will have b… more

Any moms with 2 under 2? Found out I’m preggo. We planned this and are super excited. However, trying to decide now, if I want to work or become a SAHM for a couple of years.

I’m in tech. Can anyone s… more

Strength training questions while pregnant: 1) Did your doc weigh in on your regimen? 2) How did you specifically change your routine throughout pregnancy?

My doc was like, "Listen to your body bu… more

Pink baby shower dresses?! 💕🌸🤰

6w and really struggling to drink water ! Like the room temp water makes me nauseas, hot one with ginger/lemon is okay but cant do more than 2 cups. Need help !
Tried Ivy liquid sachets for flavor but … more

Just tested positive and in the worst situation imaginable: likely to be made redundant at the end of the month, actively interviewing for new roles, progressing with one opportunity but moving very s… more

For the exclusively breast feeding moms - how do you manage when you leave the house if you’re going be to away longer than your pump cycle and aren’t able to find time to pump? Gets so uncomfortable … more

My test for GBS came back “abnormal,” anyone test positive and decide to forgo antibiotics? I’m starting a regimen with garlic and probiotics and plan to request 2 more tests before birth, such stress… more

Any recommendations for face cream for a new born?

If you had the choice, how long do you think the ideal maternity leave would be? FTM trying to find the sweet spot between postpartum recovery and career progression.

Diaper bags? Yay or nay? Currently looking at itzy ritzy Eras Backpack Midi Diaper Bag. Only one baby and was debating whether a regular book bag would be just fine.

Suggestions for 2nd baby registry items? I've kept pretty much everything from first baby and have the same gender so not much I need. My coworkers want to do a 'sprinkle' type shower, but… more

Idk who needs to hear this, but you don't have to stay in your hospital gown the entire time you're admitted.

Idk why I felt like it was against the rules to change once I got past the major s… more

Wearing pants below the bump is so in right now but I don’t understand how to make it work. I carry really low, so there is just no space for pants to go below the bump. Like it shows my underwear to … more

Due with my second at the end of December. Wondering if anyone has any tips to extend maternity leave as long as possible? I’ll get around 5 months off by using some of my vacation time but would love… more

Just found out I’m pregnant and received a job offer from a tech company. The offer is exciting, but their policy is that paid parental leave only kicks in after 12 months of employment. If I accept the offer, I’… more

Would you travel at 9 weeks with a fairly large subchorionic hematoma? I did IVF and my fertility dr said it is fine and won’t increase the risk of miscarriage but I have gone down a rabbit hole readi… more

What’s the best tea during pregnancy? I know we can’t consume green tea.