A good friend that I’ve worked with in the past asked me for a referral. Last time we worked together wasn’t really great. Do I refer them because they’re a friend although I don’t like their work, or should I say no but risk hurting our friendship? Would love some advice!

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99% of the time honestly is the best policy. This is the 1%.

I’d informally tell the hiring manager your friend is looking for a role, you like them as a person but can’t vouch for them professionally and encourage them to do their own homework. They’ll get it, and you can tell your friend you passed their info along.

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This is the way.

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You could tell hiring person that you are more familiar with them as a good friend and good human being. As a friend they must have some redeeming qualities that you can talk about, that makes them your friend. You need to help your friend out and I don’t think it’ll be much skin off your back to make an effort.

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Also, people can grow, how can you give feedback that doesn’t ruin your friendship and makes sure you set them up for success?

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