Always said I wanted to reach FI to take more time to do things I love and spend more time with family. But have 9mo off this year and pretty much just binged watched streaming platforms. Rethinking this whole path.

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How do you have 9 months off? Just thinking if it’s parental leave or some sort of medical leave it might not be a good test case for eventual FI. Also, you know… pandemic.

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Self discovery is hard. Someone recommended me the book “designing your life” and I still struggled with how to motivate myself

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That’s so true. I don’t know what I want to do with my life yet. I am 38

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Sounds like mental health more than the FI’s fault.

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Or just a type A that really loves working. The right job can have great benefits for mental stimulation, social interaction and sense of purpose.

Yea. It’s also expensive to do the things you love…

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How far into the 9 months are you? I know I take a few weeks to decompress before I’m ready to start branching out.

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What’s keeping you from doing things?

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Lack of motivation tbh. When I work I use all my vacation and have traveled to 50+ countries. When it’s no longer time sensitive don’t feel the pressure/urge.

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What are the things you love?

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