Any dads here experience having a premature baby? I’m wondering how best to support my wife. We’ve got a kid at home currently in daycare and our 2nd kid was born 10 weeks premature. Any advice helps.

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Sorry to hear this. My daughter was premature as well. I’m sure your wife (and you) would appreciate a vacation from the stress of it all. Try bringing fun meals to the hospital, discuss summer vacation plans, etc. If your wife is staying overnight at the hospital, try taking turns if you can manage with your work schedule. Do what you can to hang in there, your baby will be home soon.

Thank you M1, I get the point of injecting in a little fun !

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