Anyone else find themselves getting extremely stressed at work during pregnancy? Itโ€™s like my emotions are just off and I get so stressed so easily. I want to be calm for baby but itโ€™s hard to not get worked up!

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๐Ÿ™‹๐Ÿปโ€โ™€๏ธ๐Ÿ™‹๐Ÿปโ€โ™€๏ธ๐Ÿ™‹๐Ÿปโ€โ™€๏ธ trying to keep my emotions in check and itโ€™s just hard these days

I don't necessarily feel more stressed than usual, but I do feel more outspoken.

If I show any opposition or strong opinions, my coworkers are already making comments about "it must be the pregnancy hormones" (just told them a week or two ago). Which sucks and devalues my message. So I'm trying to go out of my way to say things in THE most calm way ever ๐Ÿ˜ฎโ€๐Ÿ’จ

I donโ€™t know how things are at EY but Iโ€™m finding that my coworkers are extremely on edge due to these market conditions. It is not good for me to be in this type of environment while Iโ€™m pregnant but I need the benefits so I am sticking it out and meditating when things get too bad.

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you have to set your boundaries as well as let your team know if you are getting stressed. Oh and wait till you hit post partum - stress increases many folds due to hormone stabling and sleepless nights. breastfeeding and couple these with work... for me I set my boundaries and I have clearly communicated that.

Ugh me ๐Ÿคฆ๐Ÿผโ€โ™€๏ธ. Iโ€™m having to set some really strict boundaries with people so that I donโ€™t go totally insane with stress. Which is empowering in its own way but also could be resolved by people not being short-sighted and dumb.

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