Is a bad relationship still worse than no relationship when you are working 100 hours a week?

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If its draining you down emotionally than a no relationship would be better. If you're getting free sex then stay where you are

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I mean we get along well but she flips between marriage and friends with benefits every week...the sex is really good though

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She's probably scared of getting hurt, given she was all in before but you weren't. It's why she's fluctuating. Maybe rightfully so given you're so willing to move on/ find someone else w/n 3 months. And also biggest con of losing her to you sounds like losing the sex. Talk to her. Be clear on your end what you want, and be honest

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What do you mean by bad relationship? Toxic? Abusive?

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If you think she's marriage material then have a chat with her and let her know how you really feel. Certain people are worth the time and care while others aren't. There is more that is going on in the relationship than what has been said here but only you and her know that. It's those unsaid moments that will help you decide if she's worth it.

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Do I just break up and give up the sex...I know it will be 3 months or so before I can ever look for new options (deal time)

*meant to say yes, bad relationship is the worst. Relationships should always be net positive. Do you want to marry her?

I do, and admittedly I was a dick to a lot of people in college (which I apologized face to face with most of them...especially her) but after I took this job I got better and she still seemed to still really like me...but recently she uses the excuse that I was a dick to her in the past so she can do no wrong...I'm not sure if I should just wait it out like she did for me or whether to just move on

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