Any indonesians working in the US?

Finally hit my breaking point. Been nothing but irritable & pissed off these past few weeks. Coach asked me on Friday when I’ll be taking time off & I just broke down. I’m a top performer & a workhorse. I’ve put so much effort into making sure my team is okay I forgot about myself. Now I am buried in work, performance is dropping & I can’t stop crying randomly. I kept telling people I am drowning but no one was listening. Coach is leaning to tell everyone to backoff thankfully.

Dyslexia! After having our kindergartener son tested (privately) related to ADHD, we were told he may have dyslexia too (which would explain why he struggles so much with phonics but is amazing at sight words). He has a very high IQ. As a voracious reader, I am finding myself unexpectedly distraught that something that I have loved so much will be such a struggle for him, and worrying that it will affect his motivation and may steer him away from things he may otherwise love.
Tips/Commiseration?

I recently joined a company after being self employed. I’m on hubs’s health insurance. We have no kids. It’s United healthcare. The company offers United as health insurance. What’s the best way to compare plans? I have not been in this situation before so apologies in advance if this is a dumb question.

Anybody use Flaviar and recommend it? Referral discount?

I buy things I don’t need and don’t know how to fix it. I always blamed it on “drunk buying” but I’ve been sober for 355 days and it persists. I know I buy things in an effort to fill a void and try to feel something so I buy “things” but it doesn’t help and I know it. Any thoughts or suggestions?

Anyone here have thoughts on Helium (HNT)? I’ve been a fan for a while now

Taking L1 on December 5 (if it’s not cancelled before then). I’m extremely nervous & do not feel ready at all. Any advice on how to make the most of this last month?

Do you think people working in the pharma industry will gain more trust, respect, or positive vibes in 2021 after vaccines are widely distributed? Right now it’s the industry with one of the lowest perception scores

I have a partner one to one call in an hour’s time to talk about the general feel in the office and the covid work life! I want to sound positive because if i bring out the truth it will be really ugly. Any ideas on some issues i could raise?

How much do partners pay for health insurance?

Signed up for a personal trainer! 2x/week strength training with her... to begin with!

Is your facility paying for you to get COVID
testing?

Does anyone in this group have ADHD? Are you finding that working in a law firm setting and billing hours is just not something they can do or is it possible with the proper medication and therapy?

I don’t cut my hours, I consistently reach 7 hours a day, but it’s not enough to meet my firm’s minimum requirement. I’m usually working 9 hours/day.

IFV recommendations in Boston anyone? A Reproductive Endocrinologist the most - but reccs on any and all members of a health team/other tips welcome. Wide and I are about to begin this journey =/

My office doesn’t have breakfast food and I am used to being WFH and making whole breakfast at home…any recommendations for healthy, quick options to make at the office?

Hi! Looking to build a home gym. Willing to spend good money but also want to pick and choose where it’s worth it. Any recs? Also any recs on treadmill brands?

I am in a self-contained cross category room. Grades 2-4. We have kiddos who need to be placed in therapeutic schools but those schools are understaffed due to Covid — their staff found other jobs during the shutdown—and so can’t take them. Several of our kids are huge. I have been slammed hard on the back, chased around the room to hit me, kicked, bitten, clawed, hair pulled. Is anyone else experiencing heightened behaviors?

Obviously many of us get paid very well and there is an expectation with work demands for being paid that high. But what’s too much? How do you set a limit to preserve your mental health? I find myself guilty for taking time to decompress but I know I come back to work refocused after I do it.

Got Invisalign (Lite) today!! If all goes to plan, I’ll be done with treatment before fall. Any advice from those who had or have invisalign? 🦷😁🦷

Happy Monday afternoon to everyone except to those recruiters who ghost job seekers 👻

Anyone down to play tennis in Frisco/Plano?

Hi everyone,
I’m hiring for x3 Sr / Jr Application Security Engineers in my team.
UK based, team is 100% remote, although the office in London is there if you prefer.
Pre IPO unicorn valued FinTech startup.
Get in touch for more info 🙂

Currently studying for the DP-100 exam. Any tips/tricks for studying? I'm currently using the MeasureUp practice test, taking a Udemy course, and looking through the self paced study material.

MeasureUp: a lot of really obscure questions and the documentation references aren't great.

Udemy & Self-Paced Doumentation: very high level and the practice questions are too easy. I could answer most without following the material.

Also, there isn't a lot of overlap between the study materials.

I’m hoping this Willett rye scares away these manor Sunday scare is. 😬

What is everyone's favorite whiskey, and why?

How different do your two professional recommendations need to be? I’ve worked for two years under the same management because of mutual trust. Any other recommendations would be dated or worse.

How can you deal with your desi parents, trying to interfere in your life sitting in India. They call my friends on Whattsapp and discuss things with them and decide what I should do. They try to deliver the messages indirectly rather than talking straight to me.

Any tips on turning photography as a hobby into a side gig? Is shooting portraits the best strategy?

What is the official vacation announcement for EY during 4th July weekend?

Hi pals, looking for Chicago-based photographer recos.
I've got my shortlist but wanted to branch out beyond my radar.
Lifestyle and food experience a must, motion a plus!
Must be a pro with representation.
Drop names or IG handles in the comments. Thanks :)

I am a mechanical engineer and people think that because I am a "mechanical" engineer like I fix cars. It is part of the career, but it is not the same thing. It happens to others that people confuse your profession, or it's only to me?

Hi Fishes,

I have applied to one of the roles about 10 days back and I didn't recieve any calls regarding my screening or interview.

Can someone tell me how many days does it take for the initial screening to happen after applying.

Also, how much time will it take for all the process to happen ( screening + interview + final discussion).

Thanks in advance

Hey guys,

I really need your help.

I recently got a good opportunity in one of the Mncs to work but i was worried as i had absconded from one of the companies just after 2 months of working there due to mental torture.

I have a shown the same as gap for personal reasons in my resume.

Will i have any problem after joining this new MNC during background verification as per the standards?..

Really need your help if anyone has faced this situation or know anything on the same.

Thank you

Why does Newark close tsa pre lanes? Terrible

In Indonesia for a month and plan on downloading Gonek - does anyone have a Gojek referral code I can use?

What type of exit opportunities are you guys looking at? What about colleagues, where do they typically end up after consulting?

Hi fellow consultants of Indonesia,

How much is the compensation for associates in Strategy&, Bain, and Kearney in Indonesia ?

How many hours do you guys work on average per week in indo?
I’m Indonesian but not working in indo and currently looking to move back in the near future.

Hi Fishes,

Has anyone recently gotten the work KITAS? Had some queries about the process.

Hi not from Indonesia but speak the language

Anyone knows manager compensation in Jakarta MBB office? Tried Glassdoor but sample size is too small. Considering moving back home.

Hi guys, I got a feeling that big 4 or T2 companies kinda quiet in jakarta as opposed to MBB where they conduct lots of recruiting events (management consulting). Any reason for that particularly or maybe big 4 prefer internal hiring only?

Hey fellow Indo Consultants

My husband is a big 4 consultant in the US (M level, 8 YOE). Thinking of option to relocate to Indonesia. Can you guys share what is the total comp in Indonesia for his level please ?