Any women (or men) go through egg freezing to keep the option of having kids later in life? 35 y.o. and starting to feel like my opportunity to have kids is slipping away quickly. Thanks for sharing..

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Definitely freeze now OP. 35 is the cliff when lots of bad things happen. Good Luck!

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Adopt a lost soul who wants parents 😊

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EY1 - there is no magic cliff. Female fertility declines steadily from 25.

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Do it. Reduces stress in life later. No time like the present!

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P5 - incorrect. It does. Especially re: birth defects unfortunately

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Anyone actually done it yet? I hate needles and I’m scared of the hormone mood swings.

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Just had my first consult and trying to figure out insurance coverage now. As someone on the north side of 40, I wish more than anything that I would have done this when I first considered it ten years ago.

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Good opportunity to remind everyone tgat MALE fertility drops, too, ith age, as does risk of birth defects.

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Thanks everyone. This discussion has been so insightful. Lots to think about BUT I'm going to freeze my eggs ASAP!!! If I get to adopt long run instead I'll still consider myself lucky 🍀.

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How much did you pay EY3, and how long was the entire process?

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I paid about $5k out of pocket for one cycle (not covered by insurance) and $400/year in storage fees. Additional rounds would have been $3k (for the meds)

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A friend of mine recently had hers frozen and said the process wasn't terrible, but towards the end she couldn't travel. Also, the odds of success are dramatically higher if the eggs are fertilized before they are frozen.

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32 single this just makes me 😱 never thought I’d need to consider this.

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P3- your doctor is ridiculous... have had friends freeze and do I️VF successfully after 35. Yes, better to do it as early as possible but there is no magic cut off date.

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Can any experienced ladies tell me what the process is like? I’m worried about gaining weight from hormonal fluctuations...

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Anyone NYC based, i highly recommend Extend Fertility. The clinic is on 57th and 7th right off the NRQW Line. They were fantastic every step of the way.

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Just get pregnant and freeze the baby? Is that a thing?

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Have to echo SC1. I have bio and adopted kids. Love them all the same, but adopting from foster care makes me realize how different things could have turned out for them.

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OP don’t mean to scare you but maternity and childbirth are weirdly mysterious. There are women who will walk in and out and have kids and women who look fairly health go through hell and back. I had a nightmarish time during my childbirth and although no one said it was age related, i cannot help but think it could have been avoided-if i did it in my 20s. If you want children, age does matter if you dont, dont so it

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Yes. I had it done at 37. Everyone is different in terms of success rates/# cycles. If in NYC i can recommend where i we t

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