Anyone done a pre nup and willing to share some advice? Single dad about to get married to another single mom. My kid is 5 and hers is 7. She has some investments (two small self paying condos) that she would like to protect. I have some savings but had to sell mine during the previous divorce process. She makes 130K and I currently make 375k. My income though will start to pick up once I hit partnership next year. Just want to know so best practices on what is considered fair for both parties.

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Get a lawyer. It’s worth the expense given what’s at stake

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Got it thanksz

Did you discuss how your finances will contribute to both of your existing children? Will it be 50-50?

No. I am a man marrying a woman

Anyone?

I’d get a lawyer for each of you talk through both sides of it. Do you plan on kids together?

Also think about your will, how do you protect your kids if you die. Based on your income I would guess you have a trust. Make someone else the trustee.

Yes we plan on our kid as well

Community property state or not makes all the difference, in non-community prop what’s yours prior to marriage is yours only on other hand comm prop is 50/50 no matter who brought what.

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