Anyone else feeling a serious amount of guilt since getting laid off? I know it's not my fault, and even though my partner is being as supportive as possible, it really feels crappy not to be able to contribute like I usually do.

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100%. I had spent months trying to get out of my job, only to find what I thought was a great fit and then laid off 2 months later. Funny enough my old company then had layoffs just this month so I would have been out either way but it still is just like “wtf is happening” ..

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Don’t do that to yourself! It’s out of your control. Just contribute to cleaning up, running errands and stuff that’s harder when working a little extra when you have time. Take care of yourself and let the guilt go. You didn’t do anything - it was done to you. Your partner likely 100% gets it.

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Yeah for sure. I keep asking myself if I could have done anything differently to be higher up the pecking order or landed with a more stable company.

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Hi,

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So, lay off until the pandemic blows over.

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I’ve been lay off this afternoon because low performance, it just two weeks ago I talked to my manager and told her that she’s micromanaging me a lot and I need more autonomy at my work. I didn’t like what they’ve done to me specially I’ve been redundant from the previous role before joining this company. I cannot sleep please any plan’ action and what to answer for the reason why you leave your company? I’ve been in 3 jobs for the last 2 years.

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6 months pregnant and just laid off. And 40% of my severance was just taken in taxes .. I just spoke with paid family leave and I no longer qualify even though I had been paying into the program (thanks NY).. I already applied for unemployment but doctors are telling me I’ve got 10-14 weeks left in this pregnancy.. so stressed having twins and being unemployed, no maternity leave, no paychecks coming in, and I’ve been applying but not a single interview.. just ugh. 😭

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Follow up post to my last post…My husband was laid off from the company where I also work. I am feeling really isolated / depressed about working and moving forward. I’m also getting to a stage where I’m really sad that people haven’t reached out to either my husband or myself to send well wishes or provide support. It’s like they don’t know what to say or I make them feel awkward so they don’t bother…I’m trying to focus on a few that have been supportive but it’s hard…Any words of advice? 😞

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Hi everyone. I was a solution engineer at Oracle. I graduated from college in May and this was my first job out of college so the lay offs were pretty rough. I majored in Supply chain management and I have 2 internships under my belt. Do you guys have any advice or tips on what to do moving forward? I would like to stay in tech and I’m giving it a few weeks before I start pivoting to more traditional supply chain roles. Thanks.

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Everyone! One of my friends company is looking for Product Support Engineer - Fulltime
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Morning! Being laid off sux, I been down this road 5x in my career it never bets easier.

Dust off contacts and make your rounds
* if you’re in a good position to take time off do some, seems we all need a mental break anyway

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Should I be reaching out to recruiters and hiring managers after applying to jobs? I've mostly been applying through LinkedIn, so finding the right person isn't hard. I'm just afraid of coming across as obnoxious!

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Hey all!!
Hope you all are doing good.
Can someone share your thought of how to deal with this situation. I am completely lost in terms of my mental health. Not able to overcome and accept this situation. I think this is right place to ask, as we all are going through the same.

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Should I negotiate a severance package even though it’s not in my contract and it’s not required by UK law?

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