Anyone take a baby and me trip during their mat leave (without your partner)? It’s my third child so I’m totally comfortable taking care of baby alone but not sure it will be fun for me? Taking my 7yo and 3yo with will certainly not be fun lol. Thinking just a weekend at the end of my leave so babe will be ~3.5 months.

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I haven’t. I did travel with my husband and my 3 month old during my first mat leave to visit family. I could picture doing that trip again with just me and my upcoming baby, but it’s because I’m traveling to visit family and will be somewhere that I’ll have help. Would I take my new baby alone to like a vacation vacation, like a resort or sightseeing trip? I lean towards no.

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Fair. Maybe I’ll go visit my sister.. good thinking!

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I took weekend trips with my older kids and left the baby at home with dad.

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Ugh that does sound fun (at least with my 7yo) but would be a huge pain for me breastfeeding/pumping. Maybe next year when I’m done though.

I did a week in Miami with my baby at 3 months and older kids/husbnd. I would not have done that alone because it’s a lot of time to be by yourself with just the baby. You’ll need a break.

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