Asked three managers to write recommendation letters for grad school. One partner replied one week later saying he can write me a letter. What should I do? Should I kick one of the manager out?

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That's rude. Split them all up between different applications

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Don't tell them.

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Be wary of the partner's Rec. All good intentions probably but he might send you one after you graduate.

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Write it for them.

Exaggeration but you get my point 😋

Partner will likely ask you to write it or he / she will write a very shitty one. Use Managers/ Directors

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