I'm dealing with some toxic masculinity at work from someone that works on my team. Does anyone have advice on constructive ways to address this type of behavior?

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First, I’m sorry that you’re dealing with this. I can appreciate how difficult this must be.

I find that dealing with toxic co-workers can be difficult. Some of them I speak to directly about their behaviour; others I choose to distance myself from, especially when there is a power imbalance in our working relationship and they are likely to respond in ways that can hurt my career.

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