Best city ever to date as a desi single? Doesn’t matter which country.

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Banglore/Mumbai

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Never dated in Mumbai but Bangalore I definitely second.

Sounds weird but the best dating experience as a desi was in Portland Oregon.

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Interesting. Never thought about it but people around downtown were ridiculously open minded. Rajneeshpuram may have some effect but never have I ever felt the slightest judgment from anyone. Just nice plain conversations and dates. The real feeling of inclusiveness. I was judged by Indian women more at times but not the bunch of folks I came across while in Portland.

Pune, NYC, San Francisco, Chicago, Atlanta

Nyc has the weirdest equation. Specially for Indian guys.

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M here.

Anyone for catch up and explore good places evening or tomorrow?

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So many people live in NYC but still it feels like the loneliness place on the planet. Does anybody have positive stories from dating apps? How do you guys meet ppl in general?

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Flyday thoughts: I'm a 💁🏼 who is attracted to 💁🏾‍♂️ guys. But the desi men I've dated have been more interested in casual hookups, not relationships. I'm not that kind of girl so it always fizzles out pretty soon. Are there 💁🏾‍♂️ out there who would be interested in a (potentially serious-ish) relationship with a white girl, and is there a way differentiate them from the guys just tryna get laid?

Had a second date planned for tonight, she text me this morning and has a high fever! Should I send a care package?

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How are people making the most of dating in Covid? Has anyone met someone through the apps and started dating during this time? Thought it would be a great time to find people who are looking for something serious and less distracted by a busy routine but haven’t had much luck.

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I love when randomly talking to a straight man and they out of nowhere say “I have a girlfriend” all shaky and nervous. It gives DL guys in sweatpants tease and that I’m doing something right 😂

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26M, 6ft. Looking for casual. No bar on age and relationship status.

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