Best city ever to date as a desi single? Doesn’t matter which country.

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Banglore/Mumbai

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Never dated in Mumbai but Bangalore I definitely second.

Sounds weird but the best dating experience as a desi was in Portland Oregon.

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Interesting. Never thought about it but people around downtown were ridiculously open minded. Rajneeshpuram may have some effect but never have I ever felt the slightest judgment from anyone. Just nice plain conversations and dates. The real feeling of inclusiveness. I was judged by Indian women more at times but not the bunch of folks I came across while in Portland.

Pune, NYC, San Francisco, Chicago, Atlanta

Nyc has the weirdest equation. Specially for Indian guys.

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