Everytime I got a date in this city they ask "what do you want to do" like I don't have time to make plans for us Everytime! You come up with something! Grr

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We alternate who <picks/plans/makes reservations etc> and who gets to come along for the ride.

mental work needs to be shared.

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Like a new date? Or same person?

And how are they supposed to know that your other dates ask you the same question?

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Do they know what you like?

Been in this type of relationship for 6+ years. He’s so used to it now that I don’t think it will ever change. Set expectations early.

At least they’re being considerate to ask! What if they want to go to a weird museum when you’re just down to get coffee?!

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