Best way to ask a low social IQ coworker to stop taking long phone calls? We work in an open office and it’s really distracting. There are plenty of rooms available for this purpose

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I think MD1 nailed it. If you can’t focus in open environment, get some good earbuds or noise canceling earphones.

Not knocking you, just saying. This is coming from a guy that gets distracted by cars driving by my window

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Low social IQ? You sound like a nice person.

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Uh yes? Maybe it’s different at PWC.

Ok, diff perspective here I guess. Sometimes I get animated and raise my voice on calls. Not yelling, but volume may increase. We sit in an open seating environment and one time I had someone call me out on it. I immediately realized what I was doing and altered my behavior. The level of social IQ I maintain not withstanding, I confronted this person after my call, apologized, and thanked them for their feedback and transparency, and encouraged them to continue doing what they can to improve the office/work environment.

In the end, complaining isn’t much fun if nothing improves. Have you tried talking to them?

(Edited for my atrocious spelling)

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I’d call that more of a capitulation than confrontation.

Handled the right way all the same

These are the same people having long and loud cell phone conversations on the train at night.

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I also work with people like this OP. It sucks, they have no social awareness and really should just work from home. Unfortunately all I can do is give them nasty looks

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They may also be focusing on the call that they are on and not see someone looking at them. I know when I am talking to a client or otherwise engrossed in working on something it can take me a while to realize that someone is standing at my office door unless they knock

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If it’s a business call ur gonna have to suck it up.

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Then both should just develop and use some self awareness and modify their volume to meet the business needs. I am just saying if the office environment is open concept then someone should not have to squirrel away in a room away from their desk for a call.

The best way is to put in your earbuds and listen to something else.

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Are these personal calls...?

No but they are very loud and usually long

Maybe tell him? I think some people are not aware that they are being too loud. And if he says he has to take it right there right now, then you can’t really do anything

We had a person on our team that was always talking really loud on their calls. They new that they spoke loudly but it was a habit at that point. We kept reminding them and the were cool about. Took a while but they quieted down.

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