I’m kind of stuck what to do. The principal at my school is very intimidating, confrontational, and not pleasant to work for. I love teaching but feel like I have to walk on egg shells around him.

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I know people who have been in situations like this, and once they left they were much happier. I would stick out the year but update your resumé and start looking for another job. You’ll be happier in the long run working for someone you can openly talk to m.

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I only had so much space to type so I am going to finish here. This is a great school and my kids all go here at a discount because I work there. However, I don’t know how much more of this jerk I can take. I can’t afford this school without discount. What to do?

I feel you. We had one that was infamous. People started quitting when they heard ahe was coming. Teachers cried and even the secretary quit the first. Subs didn't like her and prospective teachers tried to sneak out of the school without saying good bye.

See your Union rep for advice.

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Seek Union help.

Try to switch to public school for yourself and your family.

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