Book recommendations for dealing with difficult people like passive aggressives and credit takers and just learning about diff personalities in general

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Adam Grant has some great books. Also listen to his podcast “Work Life”. He I believe he has a specific episode when he talks about difficult people. Culture Code is a good book too.

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The Bible

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Following, there are a lot of such people

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Life Code

Change your questions, change your life

It’s a great book. Short read, check it out.

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